Feeling Beings Who Think

Two Kinds of Wisdom Every Leader Needs

In this reflection episode, I explore the two kinds of wisdom that shape the spirituality of leadership: the practical wisdom that guides what we do, and the perennial wisdom that shapes how we are.
Drawing from my conversation with translator and contemplative teacher Carmen Acevedo Butcher, I share how contemplative practices strengthen our capacity for discernment, patience, and presence. The vital the inner qualities that allow us to lead with love rather than react from anxiety.
I also include a simple, practical tool from The Daring Way™ framework to help bring clarity and ownership to any conversation.
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From Ancient Words to Contemporary Wisdom with Carmen Acevedo Butcher

Today I'm speaking with Carmen Acevedo Butcher award-winning translator, writer, and core faculty of The Center for Action and Contemplation. Her translations of The Cloud of Unknowing and Practice of the Presence reveals timeless wisdom for anyone drawn to contemplative life, beyond any one tradition. Together, we explore the non-binary nature of spirituality, the power of presence, and how ancient wisdom continues to speak to the questions of our modern lives.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Mystical Traditions
02:49 Carmen's Journey and Vocation
05:54 The Art of Translation as Spiritual Practice
09:05 Childhood Influences and Early Struggles
12:12 Finding Healing Through Nature and Language
15:00 The Role of Trauma in Shaping Identity
18:08 The Search for Self and Spirituality
20:53 The Complexity of Pride and Agency
23:51 Listening as a Path to Understanding
27:13 The Process of Translation and Interpretation
30:04 Beyond Binary Thinking in Spirituality
32:59 The Influence of Historical Context on Spiritual Texts
36:04 The Universal Message of The Cloud of Unknowing
38:57 Brother Lawrence and the Practice of Presence
42:11 The Importance of Grace in Spiritual Life
44:50 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

Embracing Self-Compassion: The Power of Inner Listening

Inspired by Becca Pearce’s insights, Arianne shares a short reflection and a practice for shifting from harsh self-talk to self-compassionate clarity in leadership and life.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Feeling Beings Who Think and it's purpose
03:02 Introducing Solo Episodes and Reflections
03:29 Insights from Becca Pierce
03:54 The Power of Listening
04:42 Self-Compassion and Inner Dialogue
06:24 Practical Advice for Self-Compassion
08:05 Conclusion and Call to Action

You Don't Have To Achieve To Be Loved

Today I’m speaking with Becca Pearce, author of You Don’t Have To Achieve To Be Loved. Becca shares how a health crisis became a turning point in her lifelong pursuit of perfection, and how forgiveness, uncertainty, and self-compassion helped her discover love and wholeness beyond achievement. If you’ve ever measured your worth by what you do - and who hasn't - this conversation will speak right to your heart.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Becca Pearce
01:07 Career Journey and Challenges
03:20 Health Crisis and Transformation
05:39 The Impact of Upbringing on Health Choices
10:40 Forgiveness and Self-Compassion
17:55 Navigating Uncertainty and Change
24:06 Core Needs and Values
29:22 The Journey to Writing a Book
37:26 Conclusion and Book Release
Becca Pearce is a seasoned executive coach and business strategist with years of experience helping leaders achieve their professional and personal goals. As the Founder and CEO of Extend Coaching & Consulting, she brings unique insights from her career as a former health insurance executive and her transformative personal experiences, including overcoming public failure and significant health challenges.  Her expertise lies in empowering leaders to navigate change, enhance productivity, and build lasting success through strategic planning and leadership development. Becca’s passion is helping executives and business owners lead with authenticity, innovation, and confidence.

Be All Of Who You Are with Mikaela Seligman

Today I am joined by Mikaela Seligman—founder of Lumin/Us Leadership, a guide, coach, and partner to mission-driven leaders and organizations.
With over 30 years of experience across nonprofits, education, philanthropy, government, and labor, Mikaela brings wisdom from roles as diverse as classroom teacher, executive director, and advisor. She shares how adaptive leadership and wholehearted transformation have shaped her path—and how she helps others walk theirs with fierce compassion.
It’s a thoughtful, heart-forward conversation about vocation, mission, and becoming all of who we are in the work we do.
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You can connect with Mikaela on her website and on LinkedIn

What Would Love Do with John Frisch

In this episode I’m joined by my friend and colleague John Frisch—an executive coach, leadership consultant, and former CEO of the mid-Atlantic law firm Miles & Stockbridge. John’s passion for growing leaders and transforming workplace cultures is rooted in years of experience and a deep commitment to values-based leadership.
In this conversation, we talk about love—not as a feeling, but as a practice, a value, and a choice. Whether it’s in our leadership, our relationships, or our calling in the world, love can be a steady, guiding force.
I’m so grateful to John for showing up with honesty and curiosity. I hope our conversation inspires you to ask yourself, especially when facing a challenge: What would love do?
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Weaving Stories Into Community with Bishop Reddall

Today, I’m speaking with Bishop Jennifer Reddall, the sixth bishop of the Episcopal Diocese of Arizona and the first woman to serve in that role. A graduate of Yale University with a degree in Theater Studies, Bishop Reddall has long understood the power of storytelling. 
In our conversation, Bishop Reddall shares how being a witness to the stories of people and communities is central to her leadership. As is emphasizing the importance of joy, celebration, and affirming the unique contributions of each individual and community.  Thanks for listening!
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Bio
Bishop Jennifer A. Reddall is the sixth and first female bishop of the Diocese of Arizona. Elected in 2018 and ordained in 2019, she previously served as rector of Church of the Epiphany in New York City. She leads 64 worshiping communities, fostering deep faith, inclusivity, and discipleship. A collaborative leader, she prioritizes pastoral care for clergy, diocesan unity, evangelism in Hispanic and Latino communities, and advocacy for antiracism, creation care, and immigrant support. A California native, she holds a Yale degree in Theater Studies and is a former Episcopal Service Corps member. 

Turning Self-Doubt to Self-Discovery with Dan Henderson

Today I'm speaking with Leadership Coach Dan Henderson, who spent years building a career in business—founding companies, working in venture capital, and leading major acquisitions - until an undiagonosed discovery changed the trajectory of his career and set him on a journey—not just of understanding himself, but of reframing his entire story.
In this conversation, Dan shares how he transformed what he once saw as a deficit into his greatest strength. We dive into the emotional landscape of leadership, the power of finding community, and why the stories we tell ourselves—especially the ones about not being ‘enough’—deserve to be challenged. Thanks for listening!
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Bio
Dan Henderson spent nearly three decades building and successfully exiting high-growth businesses as a founder, venture investor, and corporate development executive. He played key roles in companies like FastSoft (acquired by Akamai) and BeClose (incubated at Alarm.com), led global M&A for 3Pillar Global, and invested in startups that achieved valuations in the hundreds of millions.
Now an ICF-accredited leadership coach and Founder of Gravity Insights he helps business leaders navigate growth, blind spots, and work-life balance with insight from his own journey. He also volunteers as a business advisor, plays fiddle in an award-winning bluegrass band, and lives in Falls Church, VA, with his family and an assortment of pets.
 
 

From Weary to Wholehearted with Callie Swanlund

“I realized what I wanted hadn’t been invented yet.” Today I’m speaking with Callie Swanlund—Episcopal priest, retreat leader, spiritual companion, and coach—about her journey to finding fulfillment and helping others do the same. Author of From Weary to Wholehearted: A Restorative Resource for Overcoming Clergy Burnout, Callie shares how creativity, play, and rest can help us live into who we’re called to be. I hope this sparks reflection on your own journey. Thanks for listening and sharing!"
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Bio
Callie Swanlund is an Episcopal priest, retreat leader, spiritual companion, and coach who helps others know their belovedness and find their Spark. Her new book, From Weary to Wholehearted, is a restorative resource for overcoming ministry burnout. Callie is a creative minister and leads individuals and groups in the work of Dr. Brené Brown as a Certified Daring Way Facilitator. Her How2charist: Digital Instructed Eucharist film has reached Christians and curious individuals around the world, and her Wholehearted Wisdom movement invites others into deeper reflection and connection across social media. Callie is an Episcopal Church Foundation Fellow and has keynoted such conferences as: Kanuga Christian Formation Conference, Episcopal Communicators Annual Conference, and Episcopal Camps and Conference Centers Annual Conference. She lives in Philadelphia with her co-dreaming partner Jeremy, their two tween/teen children, and a rescue pup named Rufus. www.callieswanlund.com | callie@callieswanlund.com

What is Your Heart Language with Sandra Dorsainvil

You may be familiar with the idea of love languages – a way to understand how we express and receive love in romantic relationships. But what about the relationships we have in and with our work and leadership? In this episode, I explore how connecting with our heart language can transform the way we show up, listen, and engage. My guest, Sandra Dorsainvil, embodies this deeply. As an ordained minister, leadership coach, and retreat facilitator, Sandra’s work is rooted in meaningful questions and deep listening. Her bilingual fluency and cross-cultural experience bring rich perspective to coaching and supporting BIPOC women in leadership. Tune in for a thoughtful conversation about vulnerability, connection, and leading with heart.
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You can connect with Sandra on her site, read her article "Take A Breath", and listen on YouTube!
Bio
The Rev. Sandra Dorsainvil is an ordained minister with the American Baptist Churches, USA, and a certified coach with the International Coaching Federation. She serves as a ministry coach and retreat facilitator with The Center for Career Development and Ministry, and through her private practice, she offers coaching to BIPOC women in leadership. With bilingual fluency in English and French and cross-cultural experience across Africa, Europe, and North America, Sandra brings a sensitive and unique approach to her work.
Sandra holds graduate degrees in pastoral ministry, rehabilitation counseling, and psychology. She has over 35 years of experience in counseling, advocacy, program development, pastoral leadership, and international ministry. A published author and regular contributor to The Christian Citizen, Sandra’s passion lies in deep listening, presence, and prayerful engagement.
In her free time, she enjoys paddleboarding, beach vacations, and time with her grandchildren.